1. A Woman Who Smiles (more powerful than you might realize)
A woman who smiles makes it easier for a man to approach her by conveying an attitude of confidence, warmth and playfulness. Since many women are fearful of giving men the wrong impression, they frequently guard their smiles. If the only knew that smiling is one of the things men can't resist. While this approach is safer, it inadvertently sends the wrong message that she is someone who is overly cautious because she has been hurt.

In addition, smiling is a sign of acceptance. Men often need some signal that it is safe to approach a woman before they’re willing to risk introducing themselves (unless they are intoxicated).

2. A Woman Who Listens (instead of dominating the conversation)
Women are generally perceived as rarely really listening to men, at least not beyond a few minutes. Most of the time, a few minutes is all men really need. But since most men hate to be rejected, it is easier for them to keep conversations superficial. Men expect most women to want to talk, rather than be willing to listen.

If they happen to meet a woman who listens with her eyes (looks at him while he’s talking) as well as her ears, they are intrigued. If she continues to listen and not take over the conversation, she’s the kind of woman that men can’t resist and will eventually marry.

3. A Woman Who Dresses Feminine (men are really visual)
Everyone knows that men are visual. However, women often forget just how helpless men are to what they see. The right visual stimulation can hypnotize any man. Unfortunately, women hear this and often become fearful. They mistakenly believe that men only notice perfect women.

Forget perfect! If you really want to be noticed by men, think colors, dresses and curves. Men basically like any woman who has that adorable quality that men can't resist. It isn’t that men don’t find women attractive in pants or when they are dressed comfortably – they just don’t notice them as easily. It doesn’t catch their eye like sparkly earrings, pretty colors or flowing dresses and long hair does.

Conversely, a powerfully dressed woman (think lots of red) makes most men think of sex, or not notice her at all. She may have a soft side, but if men can’t see it, they often don’t know it exists. The more feminine (softer) a woman dresses, the more men she will attract.


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That first section has got me in a whole lot of trouble. I am a natural smiler and very bubbily and the amount of times guys have taken this as their cue that I must be interested is more than I care to count. Sometimes I think why can't I just be seen as a warm friendly person rather than someone who is giving you a "come on" signal. I guess I need to be more guarded with who I smile at. Just can't help it, it's just my nature.

lol...well, it's good to just be yourself. It's easier to smile than to frown.

As for myself I tend to giggle and laugh a lot, even if I dont like the guy. And sometimes I may be laughing at them and not with them and this has caused confusion at times too.

Haha :-p
That was a good, and very accurate at
what we men can´t resist in a woman,

Especially the smile,
you have to be carefull, who you smile too.
some of us men, tend to think that we are all that
when the girl smiles.

well personally for me, im very shy,
but I think the smile of a woman, can break the ice,
and give me more confidencee to talk with her.

It's good to hear a guy's opinion on these. I had found some good articles from Relationship Headquarters site to learn more tips that I can use. Any other good advice for us ladies? I smile often at the guy who I may like, but in my photos I have been told several times that I look very serious most of the time. Reading all of these things I tend ot feel like I am back in highschool all over again, as I am quite shy in person, until I begin to get to know people.

arent we all a bit shy, sometimes :-)
Well, I think that the most important is to smile,
especially, if you are intrested, it even give
the guy some confidence to talk with you.

Goldengirl, people also told me
that I look serious, most of the time. :-p

lol...that's true, many of us have a shy side. Yeah, mainly in my pics I guess I might look a bit serious. I'll have to take more with me smiling as I do smile often.

the men i tends to meet think that if u smile that u r somehow giving them the green light to get in ur pants..

Sounds like it is hard to get it exactly right and not be giving out the wrong signals. I think some of these guys need a bit of educaation that a smile may be welcoming but is not necessarily an invitaion for anything more.

Glowing goddess,do you do those things on the list? Are you single?

lol a smile sure can get you into a whole lotta trouble !!!