That's a tough one, but i would go with B, because we are all human beins and is looking for and want the best.When i was much younger i use to date and fell hard for the guys who thinks the grass is always greener on the other side aka players, but i leaned my lesson with some broken heart, anyways my now hubby was not my type at first sight but he is all that i need he love me dearly respect me and always got my back, with time i did learn to love and appreciate him as well.

A Very very hard question. Neither answer is what anyone would want. But I guess unrequited LOVE is the worst kind of love because to put your heart and soul into someone and get nothing in return would just be soul destroying and would fill you with NO self worth.
So for me, it would have to be B. To be appreciated for who you are and shown love unconditionally would ultimately lead you to find love in there too, eventually. You would have to be a hard so and so not to find love, when you are showered in it. I do not believe that there is a person who it is impossible to love, unless they have done something incredibly bad.

By the way, are you trying to analyse your fellow members then?


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Either way it's asking for heart-ache from at least one of the members. Challenging and difficult answer to give. Everyone wants to feel loved, and it can be detrimental to soulfully and completely love someone and learning that that love will never be returned. I would have to say B, because even though the individual may possibly never fall in love with the other person who loves them. At the least, you can grow some form of fondness, care, and friendship for that individual.

I vote b) too. Skin lighten beauty is this for some kind of statistics? What kind of hypothetical question is this?

No, it's not that. It's I'm currently in a situation similar to this. Sometimes I would choose be with the person who I love, but sometimes I would rather choose the person who loves me. It's hard to choose, I dont know.

Well if it is a real life situation for you, then why are you putting limits on it hun. Like I said nothing is impossible. People do grow to love. I know I did with my first love who definitely was NOT my type. I often think that we would have still been together had we not met up at such an early age.

And sometime the poeple who we think we love so much and yet don't have love returned from them are not even right for us anyway. Sometimes nature makes it that way.

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Anyway, why do you care hun. We all love you here, so that's all that matters !! Right ?? [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]

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As they say, let nature take it's course. What will be will be... well, maybe that's 2 sayings. True, no need to limit yourself nor your feelings.

thanks guys! I agree. Sometimes love can be a strain.

Ain't that the truth !!!


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love can be many different things, both positive and negative.

u never know if the person u are incapable of loving brings out the best in u as a person and u find ur love growing day by day for this person? n besides?.. what factors make the person so hard to love?now i will say this.. it is harder to fall in love with someone who u are neither physically attracted too or maybe sexuallly incompatible with. i'm sorry but in most cases, it would take alot of time and patience, almost feeling like u tolerating the person rather than appreciating them.

I would say it is hard to be with someone who you do not love but who you know loves you. Yes they may not be your type but then someone who you are physically attracted may also have traits that you find that you fall out of love with anyway. If you don't find anything initially that makes you love someone then you should not be with them. what woud you have in your heart holding you together?

I agree that you should not set everything in stone and think love is impossible. Love can grow where you least expect it. However I would be wary of embarking on a relationship when I knew that I did not love the othe person intitially. Better to be friends and see where that leads. It would not be fair otherwise and as you probably would not want unrequitd love for yourself then you should not want to do it to someone else.

My goodness there is no way I would put myself into either situation. It is just asking for problems. Relationships can be complicated enough never mind if you start off on rocky ground.

Thinking about it I know some women that date much older guys who have money but who I do not really think they love. Some how both parties seem to get something out of it and it looks like it works